What
on earth is so extraordinary about the ‘G’ spot area? A lot! Do all
women have this spot? Yes, every woman has one. To achieve the ‘G’-spot
paradise, all you need is information. And today, I am going to give you
the details of how you can utilise the stimulating power of ‘G’-spot to
boost your séx life as a couple.
Even
if you have not explored its exclusive power, you must have heard about
the ‘G’-spot and all its intricacies. The ‘G’-spot is an erogenous zone
located inside the vágina
that produces some pretty intense sensations. At the same time, it can
also produce some extreme frustrations and dissatisfaction because it
is, for many women, elusive and mysterious. Although the whole notion of
the ‘G’-spot is hardly new, séx
researchers and therapists have been flaunting it for years in the
medical field, though skeptical about whether it really exists. The
‘G’-spot is a very real part of the female anatomy; this fact is newly
documented by medical doctors. Thanks to this new research, one can now
realise that every woman is capable of experiencing more concentrated séxual pleasure and powerful orgasm.
What is G-spot precisely?
There
are disagreements about the actual size of the ‘G’-spot. It ranges from
a quarter of an inch to a couple of inches in the upper wall of the vágina, about an inch or two past the vágina opening. Underneath are highly sensitive tissues that, when touched the right way, triggers feelings of séxual happiness and contentment.
The
‘G’-spot sensation, as described by most women, is more intense than
those sensations they feel via clitoral stimulation. According to most
of these women, there is more of a warm flushing feeling that resonates
deeply through and throughout their entire body. Even experts who always
believed in the ‘G’-spot were not sure whether it was a distinct gland
or merely a collection of nerve endings extending from the underside of
the clitoris.
Here
is what researchers are sure of: They believe the ‘G’-spot is its own
entity and is actually equivalent to an organ in the male body.
This
is known as female prostrate because their tissues surround an area
that produces chemicals similar to that of male prostate, a gland that
creates fluid to nourish the sperm. Another similarity between the male
prostate gland and the ‘G’-spot is that when the ‘G’-spot is aroused,
women experience wetness more than they do during other types of
stimulation. Some women disclosed that they produce some clean, clear
colourless fluid when they reach orgasm.
Where
and how do couples locate the G spot? First, all you need to do as a
couple is for the wife to lie back and just relax. Embarking on the
first G-spot mission location by couples can really be wearisome and it
will definitely take a lot of patience and persistence. However,
locating the G-spot can be done in two ways.
The first is the wife locating it by herself, or with the assistance of her husband.
However,
while counselling couples in my office, I always encourage the second
way, that is, the husband helping out in the location of the ‘G’- spot.
If you, as a wife, want to do it yourself, start by spreading your legs
and bending your knees, so that your vágina
is open and will be easily accessible. With your palm facing up, insert
two fingers inside pressing your fingertips against the centre of the
upper vágina
wall. By so doing, you are actually seeking a spongy puckered or
slightly ridged area, like the roof of your mouth. If after several
minutes you are still coming up empty handed, this is the time to call
for your husband’s assistance. Tell him to caress you the more, because
when you are aroused, the ‘G’-spot is filled with fluid and it becomes
larger because you have an easy time locating it, if you are turned on
by your husband. One sort of strange tipoff is that you will experience a
sudden need to urinate. Because the ‘G’-spot is so close to the
urethra, touching it often triggers the urge to urinate.
However,
there is no need to run to the rest room because this is just a false
alarm. The urge will go after some seconds. Now, locating the ‘G’-spot
by yourself is just to let you know you have one and nothing more.
But
I am always of the opinion that the best way out is to engage your
husband in locating this mystery spot to take you to this paradise of
serial orgasm.
Most
times, many wives shy away from the fact that they should guide their
husbands to locate and stimulate their ‘G’- area. There is no reason to
shy away from things that will encourage oneness and intimacy between
husband and wife. And from experience and counseling, I am yet to see a
man refusing the offer of séx from his wife, all things being equal.
To guide your husband to your ‘G’-spot, here is the easiest way to start off. Have him gently-slip a finger or two inside your vágina, then softly feel along your upper vágina
wall. If he is having trouble finding the right spot, encourage him to
kiss you (the slightest erotic kiss, when administered well, sets a wife
off in a jiffy).
The husband can increase this by touching his wife’s nipples or the outer vúlva area of her vágina in a feather-touch manner.
Remember,
the more aroused your wife is, the more her ‘G’-spot area will stand
out, making it easier to locate and caress. Also, consider placing a few
pillows under your wife’s búttocks
and gently open her legs, to give you greater access. Once he hits the
spot, just massage it slowly and slowly in a gentle circular manner. To
prevent boredom and dryness, do your best by trying different types of
caressing, such as ‘figure eight’ or a rapid sequence of pulses or a
‘push me’ around type of caressing.
The
‘G’- spot can take a lot of pressure, so your wife may want or require
you to press harder. As a matter of fact, this is where you may not be
able to predict your wife’s séxual desire exclamations because you will be surprised by her moves and request.
One
‘G’-spot touch technique the husband definitely should treat his wife
to is light tapping. Use the tip of your finger to tap firmly and
repeatedly on the ‘G’-spot. I am sure you are enjoying this piece I will
bring you the concluding part next week. Until then, I remain your
loyal bedroom instructor.
Punch Nigeria
