When a woman is flirting with a guy, she's trying to get him to notice
her and giving him an opportunity to make the first move.
The
problem with this female strategy is that a lot of guys are completely
oblivious to it and, consequently, throw away a lot of chances to hook
up. The following are 10 of the most obvious signals women emit when
they want you.
Keep in mind, however, that lots of women are open
and friendly to everyone, so spotting just one of these signs might not
necessarily be enough to determine her interest. But if a lot of these
signals are coming your way, it's a pretty safe bet that you could score
a date.
1. She smiles at you
When a woman has an
interest in you, her smile can hold your attention from across a crowded
room and it is definitely one of the major signs she's flirting. Good
looking woman have to work
everyday to fend off guys they don’t like, so if she is smiling at you
from across the room, this means that she wants you to talk to her.
Engage in her flirting by returning the smile.
2. She plays with her hair
If
she is attracted to you, she may twirl her hair in her fingers or let
it cascade in front of one eye, use her fingers to brush her hair away
from her face or lift her hair off the back of her neck as if she is hot
while looking at you. If you say hello and she’s performing any of
these behaviors, well, all signals say: Keep chatting.
3. She makes direct eye contact with you
One
of the most obvious signs a woman flirting with you is when she
continuously looks right at you and maintains prolonged eye contact. If
the eye contact is for longer than normal duration and she scans you up
and down, keeping her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks,
she’s already made up her mind that she likes what she sees.
4. She isolates herself from her friends
Women
know that men might find it difficult to talk with them while they're
in a group, so if she distances herself from her wall of friends and
stands alone, looking at or gazing at you, then it is a sign that she is
providing an avenue for you to initiate a conversation.
5. She attempts to catch your attention
If
a woman glances and smiles at you while walking by you and in the
process takes a longer route to get to the restroom, then it may be that
she wants you to notice her. By walking past you repeatedly, out of her
way, she’s giving you a sense that she wants your attention.
6. She enters your body space
When
a woman enters your personal space, "accidentally" bumping into you
with a glance and a smile or maneuvering to stand close to you at a club
or at work, she’s inviting a response and trying to become more
intimate with you. Closeness is intimacy for a woman, and the closer she
allows herself to get to you, the more attracted she is to you.
7. She initiates conversation with you
If
she comes over to talk to you, she wants to know what you’re all about.
She will seem really into your conversation, turning her body toward
you, tilting her head up at you and listening
to you intently. She'll convey her interest by asking you open-ended
questions, attempt to determine if you are single, dig for personal
information and catalog your interests so that she can mimic your likes
and dislikes in order to bond with you.
8. She draws attention to her mouth and lips
A
Woman's lips can be extremely seductive and there is a tremendous
amount of flirtatious energy tied up in them. Some of the most effective
signs she's flirting will have her applying lip gloss or running her finger across her lip.
9. She compliments you
A
woman who is flirting with you will tell you flat out that she thinks
you are cute, compliment your clothes, hair or something that you
mentioned in conversation. If you receive a compliment and she seems
really into you, she's definitely hoping you will ask her out. If you
are interested in her as well, don't forget to compliment her, otherwise
she may think you are self-centered
10. She touches you
A
flirting woman will make an excuse to touch you, if only briefly. She
might reach out and lightly touch your shoulder, forearm, hand or wrist
during a conversation or put her hand on your knee while making a point.
If she gives you any lingering touches and doesn’t immediately remove
her hand, you know you've got a live one.
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